Abstract Acinetobacter baumannii is a dangerous nosocomial pathogen, especially due to its ability to rapidly acquire new genetic traits, including antibiotic resistance genes (ARG). In A. baumannii, natural competence for transformation, one of the primary modes of horizontal gene transfer (HGT), is thought to contribute to ARG acquisition and has therefore been intensively studied. However, knowledge regarding the potential role of epigenetic DNA modification(s) on this process remains lacking. Here, we demonstrate that the methylome pattern of diverse A. baumannii strains differs substantially and that these epigenetic marks influence the fate of transforming DNA. Specifically, we describe a methylome-dependent phenomenon that impacts intra- and inter-species DNA exchange by the competent A. baumannii strain A118. We go on to identify and characterize an A118-specific restriction-modification (RM) system that impairs transformation when the incoming DNA lacks a specific methylation signature. Collectively, our work contributes towards a more holistic understanding of HGT in this organism and may also aid future endeavors towards tackling the spread of novel ARGs. In particular, our results suggest that DNA exchanges between bacteria that share similar epigenomes are favored and could therefore guide future research into identifying the reservoir(s) of dangerous genetic traits for this multi-drug resistant pathogen.